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Life Lately: Family Focused

Hi there friends. I hope your week is off to a good start. Finn and I have relocated for the week!

We flew down to Florida yesterday to spend the week with my grandmother. We haven’t been here to visit since late June (we’ve had several trips not work out for various reasons) and my parents aren’t here right now so it was the perfect time to pop down and keep her company.

Finn was a great traveler. He received a junior officer sticker from TSA when we went through security. He put it on his shirt and walked through the terminal telling everyone he was a “police kid.” It was very cute. Surprisingly, Finn wasn’t interested in his tablet (he only gets it when we are traveling) and spent most of the flight looking out the window, snacking and snuggling with me.

Backtracking a bit…we’ve had a lot going on recently.

My mom stayed with us for a week and a half and then my dad drove up from Florida to meet us in Charlotte. It was his first time seeing my new house since I bought it last August so it was nice to show him around. Zoey was in heaven when my dad was here. They are two peas in a pod. Zoey’s SEVENTH birthday is tomorrow. I can’t even believe it.

My dad brought their 14-year-old golden Sam with him for the trip. Sam is overall healthy and happy but has some mobility challenges with his back legs and is on some daily medications that my dad manages. Sam does much better being with my parents so that’s why he made the long journey. He had a bit of a hard time on my hardwood floors but did great with my two pups and was even trying to instigate play with them.

My parents left last Thursday to head to Durham for some appointments at Duke. My mom is really sick and we are working with the team at Duke to determine our options moving forward. I haven’t shared this online because it’s felt deeply personal for my family and I want to respect my mom’s privacy. At this point it feels like the right thing to give you guys a high-level overview of what’s going on because it has impacted my presence here as well as the overall state of my heart and mind. I will share more when we know more if my mom is okay with it. In the meantime, we would very much appreciate your prayers.

Finn was a beacon of light during my mom’s visit and helped to boost everyone’s spirits. On this day we had a picnic on the back patio and sat outside for most of the afternoon enjoying the cooler fall weather.

Running has been a saving grace for me, as it usually is during stressful and/or tough times.

Lastly, I did some fall decorating before we left for Florida. I’ve been on a nesting kick lately and it’s been nice to make things feel a little cozier at home. I had custom swags made for my front door and side door from someone here in town that I randomly discovered on Instagram one night. I think she did a great job. I also did the mum and pumpkin thing. Obviously, my mums need to bloom but I learned my lesson years ago about buying them already blooming because they don’t last very long. Hoping I can hold onto these until we’re ready to decorate for Christmas.

Signing off to hang out with Finn and Mema today. I’ll be back with some business as usual kind of posts (book round ups, stroller reviews, etc) as well as life updates in the next couple of weeks.

xo,
Jen

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  • Bess Carter October 5, 2021, 12:18 pm

    Praying for your mom and your family, Jen! Sending you a big hug.

    • Pam Leverette October 5, 2021, 7:20 pm

      Dear Jen,
      Deep heartfelt prayers for you, your daddy and your precious momma. I know what it is like to walk beside a parent that is ill. Please know that I am praying for wisdom for your team of doctors, peace for you and your family and especially total healing for your mom if God sees fit to do so. Finn has to be the brightest light in all of this as his sweet smile brings so much joy with every photo you post. Enjoy time in Florida as the weather has been perfect (except for a bit of rain). I am teaching at Balance tomorrow 9:30 if you can slip away (class on me?). I totally understand if that’s not possible. Love and hugs sweet girl

  • Wendy October 5, 2021, 12:20 pm

    Praying for your mom and the family.

  • Kristy October 5, 2021, 12:24 pm

    Oh Jen, praying for your mom and your family. I am so sorry. 🙁

  • Katie October 5, 2021, 12:26 pm

    It’s all so tough. My mom got sick in January and it’s a rollercoaster that I still can’t fid the words for. Sending prayers and positive vibes to your family, Love the picture of Finn and your grandmother.

  • Michelle October 5, 2021, 12:27 pm

    Sending prayers.

  • Rachael October 5, 2021, 12:30 pm

    Thinking of you, your mom, and your family.

  • Jessica Davis October 5, 2021, 12:34 pm

    Jen,

    Sending positive thoughts to you and your family as you navigate this tough road.

  • Tanya October 5, 2021, 12:37 pm

    prayers for all of you. I know your Dad is just as concerned as you are. hugs

  • Sarah October 5, 2021, 12:42 pm

    I’m very sorry to hear about your mom. Sending some prayers her way. ❤️

  • Julie October 5, 2021, 12:45 pm

    Long time reader, just sending positive thoughts your way.

  • Lisa of Lisa's Yarns October 5, 2021, 12:55 pm

    I was so sorry to read that your mom is very sick. I hope that the team at Duke can provide answers and a path forward. How very sad and scary for all of you. I hope this week down in Fl with your grandma is restorative for you and sweet Finn.

  • Emily October 5, 2021, 1:11 pm

    Sending love and prayers.

    • Fiona October 6, 2021, 2:09 am

      So sorry to hear about your mom. I hope she gets help and answers at Duke. Your front door looks lovely.

  • Liz October 5, 2021, 2:06 pm

    I am so sorry about your mom Jen, I have followed you for years and feel like I know both you and your lovely family. I am thinking of you all and sending much love xxx

  • Jill October 5, 2021, 2:07 pm

    Sending love and healing prayers to your mom and your family.

  • Haley October 5, 2021, 2:12 pm

    Thinking of you all—your parents seem so, so sweet. Hoping for some helpful information and good news for you all.

  • Kristen Helms October 5, 2021, 2:17 pm

    Prayers for your mom & family!!!

  • Trish October 5, 2021, 2:25 pm

    Positive thoughts and best wishes for your family.

  • Julie October 5, 2021, 3:04 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear this Jen. Sending prayers to you, your family, and especially your Mama.

  • Rachel October 5, 2021, 3:21 pm

    Sending positive thoughts towards you and your family.

  • Sarah October 5, 2021, 3:27 pm

    I am so sorry about your Mom. Sending much love to you and your family.

  • Sarah October 5, 2021, 3:48 pm

    Really sorry that you all are going through this. Praying for your family.

  • Michelke October 5, 2021, 4:30 pm

    Thinking of you, your mom and your family.

  • K October 5, 2021, 4:51 pm

    Sending good vibes to you and your family. xo

  • Laura October 5, 2021, 5:44 pm

    I’m really sorry to hear about your mom. Sending all the prayers I can to help comfort you and your family. Kids really do help during the tough times. Give your Mema a big hug for me, too. Grandmas are the absolute best ❤️

  • Sharon October 5, 2021, 6:11 pm

    I’m sorry to hear about your mom; that’s so hard. Here’s hoping that her healthcare team is able to recommend treatment that helps. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.

  • Nicki October 5, 2021, 7:09 pm

    Jen, I am incredibly sorry to hear about your mom. Serious illness in any family member is so tough and unfair. Hope the team at Duke can help her out. Sending you lots of prayers. ❤️

  • Katie S. October 5, 2021, 7:18 pm

    ??????

  • Sarah October 5, 2021, 9:02 pm

    I’m so sorry about your mom and am sending your family love and healing thoughts

  • Joanna October 5, 2021, 9:46 pm

    Jen, I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. Praying for you all. ?

  • Stephanie October 5, 2021, 10:30 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. Prayers for your family ❤️

  • Ally October 5, 2021, 10:46 pm

    Sending healing thoughts and love to
    You and your family. ❤️

  • Courtney Wilton October 5, 2021, 11:25 pm

    Thinking of you and your family during this tough time, sending prayers to you all

  • kim weigand October 6, 2021, 12:13 pm

    Praying for your mom and your family, Jen! Sending you a big hug.

  • Laura October 6, 2021, 1:18 pm

    Sending love and lots of prayers. ??????

  • Marie October 7, 2021, 3:50 pm

    When you said that you flew to travel with your Mom, I had a sinking feeling that something wasn’t right and I am so sorry to hear of your Mom’s illness. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Duke is excellent and I hope the team is able to figure out a treatment plan that will provide her the best possible outcome. I hope that you are able to enjoy the time with your Grandma and that your whole family is able to reunite soon. Take care <3

    • Jen October 11, 2021, 8:50 pm

      Thanks for the kind words, Marie. It’s been a rough go of it lately. We have been so grateful for the care she is receiving at Duke. It’s unmatched compared to anywhere else that she has been seen. <3

  • Diane October 7, 2021, 6:48 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear of your mom’s ill health. Sending best wishes and peace to your family as you navigate next steps. She will be in wonderful hands at Duke.

    • Jen October 11, 2021, 8:49 pm

      Thank you, Diane. We have been so grateful for the excellent care that she is receiving at Duke.

  • Samantha October 7, 2021, 9:59 pm

    Sending lots of love your way. Said a prayer❤️. I hope answers for your family come soon.

    • Jen October 11, 2021, 8:48 pm

      I appreciate the prayers Samantha.

  • Emily October 8, 2021, 12:02 am

    Thinking of you and your family, Jen. Sending love and prayers.

    • Jen October 11, 2021, 8:48 pm

      Thank you, Emily. <3

  • Claire October 8, 2021, 7:07 am

    Sending you and your family positive energy. <3

    • Jen October 11, 2021, 8:48 pm

      I appreciate it Claire.

  • Megan October 8, 2021, 5:24 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear about your mom, Jen. Thinking of you and your family!

    • Jen October 11, 2021, 8:48 pm

      Thank you, Megan. <3

  • Ema October 9, 2021, 5:54 am

    I’m so sorry to hear about your Mum, that’s so tough. Sending lots of healing thoughts your way ❤️❤️

    • Jen October 11, 2021, 8:47 pm

      Thank you, Ema. <3

  • Kate October 9, 2021, 9:43 am

    Long time reader – your blog has always been one of my favorites. Thinking of your family lots and sending all the positive energy your way <3

    • Jen October 11, 2021, 8:47 pm

      Thank you very much, Kate. This means a lot to me.

  • J October 10, 2021, 2:38 am

    I’m sending prayers for your Mom and family Jen, that she feels better soon.
    Stay safe and take care!

    • Jen October 11, 2021, 8:46 pm

      Thank you. <3

  • Jenn October 20, 2021, 6:59 pm

    Just read this while catching up on blog posts – thinking of you and your family, and keeping y’all in my prayers.

    • Jen October 27, 2021, 1:40 pm

      Thank you very much, Jenn! <3

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